Reflections of a 30+ “Youth”

As I’m nearing my mid 30s, I’m forced to consider that I am perhaps not as young as I would like to think. Sure, I know I’m not old, but I am no longer the inexperienced, green, young upstart trying to figure out my way around life. I’ve read a lot of articles with titles like “Things you should accomplish by 30” etc, and honestly I feel that it’s worth having my own personal reflections on what it means to be in my 30s.

Generation Gap

For the first time in my career, I’m actually feeling a generation gap. I’ve always thought of myself as a newcomer to the working world, but having fresh graduates in the team and trying to relate to them has proven a bit of a challenge. I’m painfully aware of how I am in a different phase of my career and life, and they are all new and a little wet behind the ears when it comes to the working world. It actually caused me to pause and reflect as I was probably just as positive and hopeful once, and I need to occasionally curb my cynical side a little more. Naturally, I tell myself that I’m being “realistic”, but it is also possible that I am just being pessimistic about things.

Expecting a certain level or professionalism may seem like a high expectation, but I have discovered that smart, young talents are usually hungry to learn and grow, if they are given a certain amount of guidance. Most of them seem to appreciate what we are trying to accomplish, but it is also true that many of them have been fed the myth of “landing that dream job”, but don’t seem to have any idea what it is they actually enjoy or what that “dream job” looks like. In these instances, it can be an exercise in futility to motivate them, even if it is just to stay and finish the project so they can discover for themselves whether this is truly what they like or not like.

As much as I hate labels, I must admit that many of them are a little on the soft side, and calling them the strawberry generation is quite apt in my opinion. Undoubtedly, this does not apply to all of them, but when you see so many of them give up the moment things get a little bit challenging, you start to wonder how things would be so much better if they had cultivated just a little bit of grit. It might not be a fair comparison since circumstances were different back when we graduated, but if things are as challenging as claimed in this generation, with most not able to enjoy the same privileges as their parents, then they shouldn’t give up so easily. I’d like to think a lot of things can be considered learning experiences, but this is not a generation of people who will hunker down and push through. Some might, if a lot of time and effort is invested into them first, and it might be a symptom of the lack of trust they have with current establishments.

Inert Stability

Aiming to transition from “young upstart” to “mid career” has been a great motivator because it allows me to have an ever curious, ongoing desire to learn. I do not ever feel that I have arrived, and this has helped me to grow so much over the years. However, I’ve recently realized I have had to, with increasing frequency, remind myself that I have a lot of experience under my belt and to tap into that when necessary. This is especially true as I am building my team, and while there is still a lot to learn, I need to have a stronger mindset of confidence and self assurance in the work that I have done over the past 10 years.

On hindsight, I realized that my initial few years of working was a time when things were quite uncertain, and despite that, I was quite bullish on taking on new challenges as long as I had the appropriate support. This has always scared me a little because I had no experience to rely on, and pushed through with just a hunch and willpower most of the time. Now however, things are different because problems are solved strategically, based on sound advice and experience. Although there are always new challenges, the approach to tackle them seem to stem more from building on past experiences rather than pure speculation and guts.

I have yet to determine whether this is necessarily a good or bad thing, and I think the truth is that being open to both the risky, YOLO-style approach as well as the calm, collected and conservative approach gives me a depth and flexibility in facing and solving new challenges that I never had before.

Overall, it is very rewarding to mentor someone and watch them grow, and the experience, knowledge and expertise gained has been invaluable in helping groom someone else. Replicating yourself has its perks and I can see why many successful people feel the need to coach and mentor others. I’ve had the privilege to be mentored by others as well, and I can truly say it is one of the key things to help a person grow in his/her career.

Humility

I think I’m quite self effacing, but I also know that with a lot of experience comes a certain amount of pride. In the right doses, pride can be a good thing as confidence and knowing who you are and what you can accomplish builds you to face more and future challenges. However, it is also easy to fall too far, thinking that we have done so much, that we sometimes forget that humility is where we learnt and gained those that makes us so proud of. I’m happy to say that I have not done everything myself, but by standing on the shoulders of those who are older, more experienced than I.

Seeing many who are young, energetic, hungry and hopeful, helps me realize that I cannot rest on my laurels and become a cynical old man (as many “more experienced colleagues” I’ve had are wont to be). I was once like them, and while I might not be in the same position as them now, I remind myself to always retain that drive and persistence. I have never looked down on those who are young, but I do pity those who seem to waste those youthful times. It is a time of opportunities and unlimited potential, and what I wouldn’t give to retain what I know now, turn back time, and do it all over again.

So I have to stay humble, as it is with having these young ones around that I can learn those lessons again, be reminded again, and keep that youthful enthusiasm going. The moment I find myself looking down at a whole generation for being young is when I know I have lost my own edge.

Conclusion

I know I’m not as young anymore, but that is just relative. I am naturally still much younger than many others, with a long journey still ahead of me in my career and in life. Growing and maturing is one of my key tenets in life, and I never want to stop doing that. It’s definitely the easiest to keep it up by framing your thoughts and identity as being “young”, because then you will never feel the need to stop learning.

In the meantime, I’ll just enjoy the fact that I’m doing decently in my career, while still young enough to be gaming, and thoroughly loving it.

Now, if only my wife could see it the same way…

Challenges and benefits of setting up your home network

In an effort to make my home a more comfortable and enjoyable place, I’ve endeavoured to make the best of technology. I’ve previously posted about setting up my home network, and the experience was enlightening, but at the same time disappointing, as I realized that the current home solutions don’t quite work as well together as I would have liked.

LAN issues

Firstly, despite trying my best to plan out the entire network, it is not possible to plan for every contingency. Unfortunately, one of my LAN connections had issues which can only be attributed to a problem during the cabling. Now that everything is nicely hidden, it is simply not possible to replace / repair it without major hacking and rework… all for just one piece of wire.

The sad part is that this end point was exactly where my desktop is located, and so the most important piece of hardware that requires a LAN connection ended up without, which was truly frustrating for me.

Thankfully, my multiple wireless access points approach worked well, and I simply connected my desktop to my 5G network by getting a USB Wireless Access dongle (because desktops don’t come with that built in usually). I ended up with at least a solid Wireless AC connection for my desktop. Since my UniFi Wireless Access Point sat just outside the door, the results were more than satisfactory.

Having too many devices

I started adding more and more devices to my network, starting with my new Samsung Smart TV. Smart TVs are advanced enough now that they have built in software that covers Netflix, DLNA playback and even a web browser. However, after using it for a while, I discovered that the built in options were less than ideal as I had problem streaming some videos that don’t support mobile browsers. The thing that did work well was Plex streaming, but that required me to keep the Plex server running (and in my case it was my desktop which is not exactly power efficient).

I also had my Mio TV Set Top Box courtesy of Singtel, and it had to be connected directly to me router as there were special settings for IPTV to work. Thankfully, my router came with those settings built in, and I had to use up one of the LAN ports for my router.

I also added a few CCTV cameras, but because I wanted to record what was captured, had to get a device to store what was streamed.

I still have a PS3 in my TV console.

To make it easier to stream stuff, I decided I needed a laptop as a central hub connected via HDMI to my TV.

Despite having 8 LAN ports on my router, I was already maxed out. I had:

One used to connect to my second Wireless Access Point
One reserved for my phone (router settings – can’t be changed if I have #3)
One connecting to Mio TV in the living room
One connecting directly to my living room TV
One connecting to my master bedroom TV
One for my CCTV recording device
One for my PS3
One for my Laptop hidden in the TV console

I had to get a network switch to alleviate the issue of too many cables running from my TV console to router, and free up a few of the LAN ports at my router to make room for future expansions. I haven’t even factored in the LAN points around the house, and some are currently not connected to the router, which is fine for now since it’s not used. I managed to find a TP Link 8-port switch for $35 from Amazon Prime Now, which I think is a pretty good deal, but they, sadly, no longer sell them.

One System to Rule Them All

In my setup, I was trying to make the living room TV the focal point. Whether it was games, watching a show, accessing CCTV footage, all of them required a system to manage, and so the best way to do everything was to have an actual computer connected directly to the TV. Thankfully my company gave me an old laptop, so I set it up as the system in the TV console that could do everything, from streaming dramas and movies to gaming.

Of course, the system was not really powerful and was more so not built for gaming, but thanks to Steam Home Streaming, I could run games from my desktop to the TV, allowing me access to my entire catalogue of Steam games at my TV. Suddenly, I could enjoy many of the X-box to PC releases, and Steam even allowed me to connect a PS4 controller directly, making it a perfect setup! Games like Final Fantasy 7/8, Tomb Raider, Broken Age, Lego Marvel Super Heroes, and the Bioshock series, all played on my couch!

What’s Next

I really wanted my place to have an awesome system to enjoy both solo and with others, and as a gamer, it is obviously exciting for me to be able to build it!

Building a small form factor PC is what I’m looking forward to next to enhance my current setup. Replacing the laptop with a powerful system that runs a GeForce 1080 TI would make the setup VR ready! Plus, 4K resolutions for games and movies are would be no problem!

And then there’s the NAS drive to keep data available on the network. It would lessen the need for my wife to worry about space for her photos and videos.

But until then, at least I know that the time and resources invested into setting up my current network and systems have been worth it. If nothing else, I’m enjoying this aspect of making my house a better home.

Setting up my home network

One of the cool things about doing up your new place, is the opportunity to plan out how you would like your home to be. This applies to the look and feel, but I think also the functionality that you can get out of it. When we purchased our place, I wanted to also try and fix some of the prevailing problems I’ve had ever since I started renting my first room – namely how to minimize running wires around the place. I decided to seriously explore how to go about setting up a home network.

The first thing I did was to think about what I actually needed. I definitely wanted to wire up my desktop directly to my router to minimize latency. I also wanted to make sure I could access the internet anywhere around the house as it was a persistent problem at my previous place. To address these main points, and future proof the house, I decided to try and setup structured cabling at my new place.

Image from Singtel Website — Image from: http://info.singtel.com/personal/internet/broadband-at-home/fibre-broadband-installation/

When I was planning all these out, I tried to find some references or research others with similar experience in Singapore. Most resources online seem to cater more for large houses, or for locals, BTO units which come with structured cabling already more or less setup. I struggled to find points of references for my HDB resale flat. Here are a few things I learned from my experience which will hopefully help others exploring the same path.

The hub

The first thing was deciding on where to place the “hub” or heart of the network. This will be the place where the main router would be setup in the home, and would be where most of the network points end up. A good setup would be something similar to an office network.

I decided on placing my hub near my TV console, keeping the main router exposed for WIFI coverage, but hiding most of the other devices (ONT, switches, power sockets etc) in the built in cabinet. Once this was decided, I had basically decided the “end” point of all my cables to be laid.

Cabling

Image from: http://premiumwires.blogspot.sg/2016/07/cat5e-vs-cat6-vs-cat6e-vs-cat6a-vs-cat7.html

Next is the simple part which you can work with your contractors on: cabling. Most contractors at the bare minimum have Cat6 cables, and although there are even Cat7 cables now, it is not worth the price as the additional isolation for a Cat7 cable isn’t really relevant for home use.

Most contractors charge cables by the number of termination points, rather than by foot run, and as mentioned, the cool thing about doing up your house is you can choose how to conceal and run the cables. In my case, everything is largely nice and hidden, so I only see the RJ45 sockets on my wall.

Termination points

Choosing where and how many points to get depends largely on your needs. You have to look at your layout and determine where the points will be in each room depending on your needs. It is best to have as many points as you can afford, but in my case, I opted for just one point in each room.

There are two end points for each cable, and you will plan for the end points from each room, but the other end should be right at the hub. My contractor initially had RJ45 female points for each of the rooms, and gave me male points at the other end, which I was not too happy about.

While it is definitely “easier” to just plug all the male points into the router / switch, the fact remains that I have that moving cable running through the house concealed, and if that moving part were to spoil (unlikely I know but I didn’t want to take the chance) I could not re-run the wire unless I was to hack the concealed ceiling and replace it.

I made some noise and they eventually replaced the male points with a wall mounted RJ45 female plate which housed 4 points each. This was fixed to the wall, making the chance of each point failing due to cable movements much lower. I just needed to get a regular Cat6 patch cable to connect each of the points to my router, and I was set!

WIFI considerations

Another key thing to think about your setup is the kind of devices you will be using in your home. If you have more devices that will be connected by WIFI, and they are spread out in the house, then you will need to cater for them.

In a city like Singapore, it is unfortunate that your WIFI signal will get constant interference from other WIFI devices. Due to how saturated the WIFI signals are, it seems that there will always be “dead spots” in the house with a standard WIFI router. Of course, you could opt for a wireless mesh network solution like Eero, Orbi or if you can get a parallel import, Google Wifi, but that doesn’t help to reduce the traffic.

Instead, I would highly recommend you get an additional access point (unless you are staying in a studio sized unit). Every WIFI device will then connect to your network via the access point(s), preserving the bandwidth of communicating between your main router and the access point. I did this by running an additional data point to the ceiling where I wanted to place my other access point.

Router selection

The new routers from most service providers are pretty good, although they lack the flexibility and configuration options that some power users might need. Still, as long as you are just intending to have a decent connection and are not looking to setup a VPN, remote file server etc just stick with the router provided. I use Singtel and the new wireless AC router works just fine.

A key thing note is the number of ports you might need for your cables. Most routers come with up to 4 ports, and if one of them is used for your secondary Wireless Access Point (WAP), then you are left with only 3 which you could use to connect to the other rooms in your unit. If you also want to connect your TV / Game Console / NAS / HTPC via cables, then you would likely need to invest in a switch. This is the main reason you would want to plan out the kind of devices you would like to use.

ASUS routers can be quite expensive, and there is one model that has up to 8 ports (RT-AC88U). Asus routers in general are not too difficult to maintain and there is a lot of support available, but I would say most users would not need to go there unless you have a specific need for your network.

You can also explore Ubiquiti products, which is very powerful, scalable and provides the most options, but it is pricey and typically meant for business / commercial use, so it may not be worth it for home use. That said, they do have a powerful WAP that is affordable and can save you the hassle of an additional power socket, because they make use of Power Over Ethernet (POE) which allows your data cable to also power the WAP. I personally went for the Unifi AP AC Lite which came with POE adapter which makes the WAP positioning much cleaner.

Summary

Overall, while I am not the most network savvy person, I am quite happy with how my network is now setup and can kiss goodbye to cables running across my house. Having most devices hooked up by cables ensures that I do not get as much signal interference, and gives you more options to expand your network usage. As we are moving towards the age of the Internet of Things, having a better connection at home would be very helpful as more and more smart devices can be effortlessly connected to your network.

If you ever want to make your home somewhat smarter, and you have the opportunity to do up your place, then consider the points that I listed above. Or, drop a comment below with your questions and I will see if I can help.

Taming the Mammoth

This article really struck a chord with me. To quote the article, we all have “an irrational and unproductive obsession with what other people think of us.” Especially in Asian culture, inclusiveness and minding what others think dominate so much of what we do. It’s a really good article and I’m not going to repeat it here. You should go read it. You should read it, now.

Plus, the cartoons are cute!

Efficiency and Productivity

I always love to explore how things can be done “better”, and being able to find a method, option or approach that increases efficiency, productivity or just making things easier is something that I’m always excited about. This is the main reason why sites such as Lifehacker remain as my favourite websites on the Internet. It is interesting to me to find and learn how to do things better, because I believe life can be lived so much better when things are simpler and more convenient, especially difficult or tedious tasks. This particular tendency is probably also the reason why I chose computing / IT, as I feel a great satisfaction in addressing difficult / complex tasks by simplifying it using technology.

When I first started exploring, most of these were computer related, because computers are logical, and there are usually quite a number of ways to automate instructions or increase the speed at which things are done. Something as simple as learning keyboard shortcuts (Ctrl+C, Ctrl+V) for example, have significantly improved the speed at which I work on the computer, and while I still sometimes use the right-click method, it is significantly easier to use keyboard shortcuts when I am handling big amounts of copies and pastes.

Considering the amount of time I spend in front of the computer (both at work and for leisure) I have saved a lot of time just using these “hacks”. It’s also allowed me to accomplish more, because if I had to manually do a lot of repetitive actions that are simply too tedious, I might actually give up and choose NOT to do it. A good example would be sorting out my music library. For the longest time, I had my library grow unchecked and I had duplicates, spelling errors, funny characters in the song title and files with wrong labels. Only when I found out about the available tools to help me automate this did I actually decide to start doing it. It’s a whole lot cleaner now and it’s a lot easier for me to find a song I want than ever before.

Of course, now that mobile devices and smartphones are here, there is an even bigger scope for such “hacks”. When I first got my smartphone (an iPhone 3GS), it was like my ultimate device, and I used it as my library for books, my MP3 player, news reader, instant Google device, email client, camera, gaming device, and of course my phone. Naturally, it has expanded somewhat and I am now using it also for banking, making payments, booking flights, storing boarding passes or check in information, as a work device, an exercise tracker and more. The scope of what a smartphone can do increases every single day, and it seems that we can consume humongous amounts of information each day. Having so much at our fingertips is great, but only when we focus it in the right direction will we get the reap the maximum benefits, especially if we want improved efficiency and productivity in our lives.

Looking for ways to make life easier, faster, better, or in other words, to “hack” a certain area so we get better results than the conventional method, whatever that may be, is something I do with a passion, and when I find a particularly interesting “hack”, I like to share it with others in the hopes that they might also reap and enjoy its benefits. I’ve probably touched on this before, but I’ve decided to open up a new section here to discuss and share some of the really cool stuff. It’s going to be exciting!